fell in love with a man online

(dating)

"I fell in love with a man online, but I'm not attracted to him in person."

I met a great guy online. He was a good conversationalist, and he made me feel secure and good about myself and him. I felt that I had met "the one." When I was sick he would call and see how I was doing. He would tell me how much he loved me and how we would be married someday.

However, when I met him, I didn't feel that same attraction to him as I did when I was talking to him on the phone. I even felt like it was a joke that he was playing on me until he spoke. I was sort of devastated. Now he wants to see me, and I make up reasons why he shouldn't, whereas I was begging him to come over before. I know that I love him, but how can I look past the look of him?

If you're meeting men online, you're going to need to become more flexible and open to being attracted to someone based on his personality rather than on his physical appearance. Today, Internet dating has broadened the dating field tremendously. And while appearance certainly plays a part in attraction, the emotional connection between two people based on common interests and values is critical right from the start of a relationship.

Rather than feeling devastated that you don't find this man physically attractive, use this as an opportunity to reflect on and reevaluate what's really important to you and what your priorities are.

See if you can give yourself and him the opportunity to spend some quality time together to find out if a physical attraction can develop out of loving him on an emotional level. Give yourself a chance to see him in a new light based on the qualities you love about him. This will hopefully help you to see beyond his appearance and into the person he really is.

And remember, there are many celebrities who are not "hunks," but are so charismatic and dynamic that they have a bevy of beautiful women who are interested in them because of their personality and charm.
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